spanking children
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24He who spares the rod hates his son. But he who loves him urgently instructs him.
13Do not be willing to take away discipline from a child. For if you strike him with the rod, he will not die. 14You will strike him with the rod, and so shall you deliver his soul from Hell.
11Now every discipline, in the present time, does not seem a gladness, of course, but a grief. But afterwards, it will repay a most peaceful fruit of justice to those who become trained in it.
4And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but educate them with the discipline and correction of the Lord.
15The rod and its correction distribute wisdom. But the child who is left to his own will, brings shame to his mother.
15Foolishness has been bound to the heart of a child, and a rod of discipline shall cause it to flee.
6The proverb is: A youth is close to his way; even when he is old, he will not withdraw from it.
18Teach your son; do not despair. But do not set your soul toward putting him to death.
17Teach your son, and he will refresh you, and he will give delight to your soul.
21Fathers, do not provoke your children to indignation, lest they lose heart.
13As a father is compassionate to his sons, so has the Lord been compassionate to those who fear him.
1Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is just. 2Honor your father and your mother. This is the first commandment with a promise: 3so that it may be well with you, and so that you may have a long life upon the earth. 4And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but educate them with the discipline and correction of the Lord.
1A wise son is the doctrine of his father. But he who ridicules does not listen when he is reproved.
13Do not be willing to take away discipline from a child. For if you strike him with the rod, he will not die.
20Children, obey your parents in all things. For this is well-pleasing to the Lord.
5And you have forgotten the consolation which speaks to you like sons, saying: “My son, do not be willing to neglect the discipline of the Lord. Neither should you become weary, while being rebuked by him.” 6For whomever the Lord loves, he chastises. And every son whom he accepts, he scourges. 7Persevere in discipline. God presents you to himself as sons. But what son is there, whom his father does not correct? 8But if you are without that discipline in which all have become sharers, then you are of adultery, and you are not sons. 9Then, too, we have certainly had the fathers of our flesh as instructors, and we reverenced them. Should we not obey the Father of spirits all the more, and so live? 10And indeed, for a few days and according to their own wishes, they instructed us. But he does so to our benefit, so that we may receive his sanctification.
4but a man who leads his own house well, having children who are subordinate with all chastity.